Look Honey She’s Just Like You!

A friend of yours said you are purposely not engaged in policy because, as an attorney, you so over-prepare that if you can’t master something you won’t dive in at all. Is that true?
Michelle:On some level I view myself – as do many women in my position – as 120-percenters, meaning we feel good about what we’re doing when we’re doing it at 120 percent. So, I could be very competent putting 70 percent in, but I don’t feel good about it. I feel like, if I’m going to master it, I’m going to master it. Where I’ve had to come – not just in this campaign, but in my life of having so much that I’m doing, my career, the role of mom and exercise and all these other things that I have come to believe are just as important – is I’ve had to sort of let go of that 120-percent thing and say, I can’t do everything. I am not going to realistically be the policy expert on every opinion and position that Barack has because I don’t have the time to do it, quite frankly. And I have to be okay with that.

Another friend of yours told me about you and Barack slipping away for date nights on the campaign trail.
Michelle: We were in this stadium and the staffers were like, ‘You guys are going to have a date night.’ They had set up a little room in the stadium with tablecloths and candles, and people came in and served, but we had, like, 10 minutes to eat. That was just squeezing it in, but it was fun, it was cute. You don’t try to have a romantic [time] at the stadium. Our romantic [time] is almost every Saturday night or Friday night, if he’s home. We spend the day with the girls doing girls’ stuff and that’s a family. Then we have date night, and the girls like it. As parents, you realize they do notice this stuff and it matters. You’re worried about taking time away from the kids to be with each other when, in their minds, that’s a good thing. It’s like, ‘Yeah, Mommy and Daddy, go! Go have dinner; it’s so cute!’ and that makes me feel like, ‘Okay, I don’t feel as bad that, after spending a day together, then we went and had a nice dinner while you had hamburgers with Grandma.’  —- People Magazine